The Power of Connection, Communication, and Collaboration

I was chatting with a man recently whose Dad was a good friend of one of my Dad’s friends. We suddenly had a connection. This connection engaged us in an effortless conversation where we were encouraged and had fun. Our laughter and shared stories got us thinking about exploring some form of future collaboration.

That perfect 20-minute moment lifted our spirits. I realized our ability to connect, communicate, and collaborate with those around us has never been more crucial. Whether you’re leading a team, navigating relationships, or building a personal brand, these three pillars form the foundation for success.

Connection: Empowers Communication

Connection is the first step in any meaningful relationship. It’s about finding common ground, understanding others, and fostering trust. A genuine connection breaks barriers, drops assumptions, and allows for open communication and deeper collaboration.

As Brené Brown put it: 

Connection is why we’re here; it is what gives purpose and meaning to our lives.”

Without connection, we’re left with shallow interactions, and we watch our opportunities to grow personally and professionally slip through our fingers. Worse yet, without continuous growth in this area, we disconnect from the community and become lonely while surrounded by many people with valuable experiences and life-rich stories.

Communication: Brings People Together

Once a connection is established, communication is the tool that keeps the relationship alive. Good communication involves active listening, expressing ideas clearly, and ensuring that both parties are on the same page. Without this clarity, misunderstandings arise, leading to frustration and missed opportunities.

George Bernard Shaw wisely said: 

“The single biggest problem in communication is the illusion that it has taken place.”

In a recent speaking engagement, I discussed my definition of inadequate communication. Simply put, bad communication is a disconnect in understanding while we believe we are understood.

Effective communication is the bridge between confusion and clarity. It ensures that everyone involved understands the expectations and outcomes. It’s a two-way street, not a one-way road.

Collaboration: The Power of Collective Effort

Collaboration is where connection and communication come together to create powerful results. It’s the understanding that two heads are better than one. When people pool their resources, skills, and ideas, they can achieve more than any individual could.

People have always been able to do more in groups than individually. Even Taylor Swift will tell you that stars are only as good as their fans drive them to be. Without her fans, Swift would be another sweet girl enjoying her music under a star-filled sky on a breezy summer night with a few friends.

However, collaborating with her fans has changed the music and movie industries.

Swift has frequently spoken about her fans’ vital role in her career, often crediting them for empowering her to make significant changes in the music industry. One notable example is her Eras Tour, which became a powerful demonstration of how music can unite people and create a shared experience.

Swift has used her platform to advocate for better artist rights, empowered by her fanbase. This collaboration between Swift and her fans played a vital role in her fight for artists to own their work, as seen in her decision to re-record her albums.

This mutual support has allowed her to challenge the status quo and shape the music industry. True success lies in working with others.

Why These Three Elements Matter

No matter what aspect of our life (work, home, or community life), connection, communication, and collaboration create a foundation for stronger relationships and better outcomes. By mastering these skills, we set ourselves up for success in every area of life.

So, the next time you find yourself navigating a challenge or an opportunity, ask yourself: 

— Am I truly connecting with those around me?

— Am I communicating clearly and openly?

— Am I fostering collaboration to achieve the best possible results?

Master these three elements, and you’ll be on your way to unlocking new levels of personal and professional growth.

Copyright © 2024 by CJ Powers

Why Fuller House Campy Wins

Fuller_HouseTwitter was abuzz with the release of Fuller House, the Netflix reprise series based on the original Full House. Since Netflix doesn’t reveal the number of viewers watching, estimates can only be determined by social media activity. All standard media sources suggest that the new series is a large success – No surprise to anyone.

Conversely, there probably isn’t a single critic in the market that would recommend the campy 80’s styled sitcom, but they’d all admit the episodes are perfectly crafted for the show’s original fans. The polarized marketplace will probably not provide any new viewers, but the series had a very large initial fan base eager to watch the series again.

It was clear in the first episode that the cast played some of the jokes straight to the audience including the writer’s proverbial hand slap to Mary-Kate and Ashley Olsen (who played Michelle Tanner) for not joining the cast. The media picked up on the controversy, which increased viewership.

The Olsen ladies are fashion experts and not in a position to leave their empire unmanaged. Nor do they consider themselves actors, which would make the long shooting days grueling rather than stimulating. But, the deciding factor would have been the dollars spent on their high salaries that are well above an Internet budget. Another deterrent might be their lackluster desire to look alike and take turns playing Michelle. Although some still hope they will appear for a cameo in a future episode.

However, the real question behind Fuller House is how can a campy 80’s styled sitcom be so successful in an era when dark motion pictures excel over cheeky? The answer to the question is also demonstrative in the faith-based markets. So, I thought I’d try to explain both.

Two factors attribute to the Fuller House success. The first are the beloved characters that fans grew up with. During the 80’s, the characters played “family” well. It was during a time when families were breaking a part with more divorces than any other time in the history of our country. The characters became role models for those seeking unity of family in a time when the family unit was being dissolved.

The second factor was about demonstrating what “love” looked like. In fact, the first episode of Fuller House dove right in and demonstrated that same sacrificial love for the sake of family that made the show great in the 80’s. Our society has been polarized in recent years between narcissists and those willing to make sacrifices for loved ones. Fuller House is capitalizing on those who long for someone to demonstrate true love to them, which they can vicariously receive, with hope, through the series.

Anyone thinking that it’s the cheese factor that attracts the audience is missing how powerful it is for a fan to receive life lessons from a beloved character. They may also be missing the fact that most people in our country no longer have anyone that is willing to share unconditional and sacrificial love with them. That void emotionally bonds the beloved characters  with the audience, making them a part of their family.

The successful faith-based films are the same way. It’s not the cheesy storylines that draw the audience, but the “born again” stars that drive the films. David A. R. White always plays an approachable character who lives his faith out loud for everyone to see. In real life, White does the same, completing the connection for audiences to adore his work. It’s not his acting skills that draw the audience, but his personal character and his role.

Fuller House’s Candace Cameron Bure also shares personal similarities with her D. J. Tanner character. Both live a wholesome life out loud for all to see and are held in high esteem as a role model. Her super fans played a large role in supporting and promoting her conservative ideas when she was on The View – Proving that campy wasn’t the key factor to her success.

The funny thing is that many think campy is the thing that works in both Fuller House and faith-based films. But it’s the campy that pushes the general public away from the moral based shows. Only those who already appreciate wholesome living are able to tolerate the campy and it’s been around forever.

The 40’s had Abbott and Costello. The 50’s had Dean Martin and Jerry Lewis. The 60’s moved campy to television with Batman. The 70’s campy shifted back to the silver screen with car films that allowed stars like Burt Reynolds to temporarily leave character and wink at the audience. The 80’s brought numerous campy series to television like Full House, The Facts of Life, Family Ties, Happy Days and many more. The 90’s saw the introduction of dozens of reality shows, which killed most campy shows.

Today campy is back, but not because people want to live in a delusional state, but because it’s the only shows that offer a demonstration on what family looks like and how to unconditionally share a sacrificial love with someone by putting them above oneself. Those two factors will continue to keep Fuller House a success until someone comes up with a realistic non-campy show that demonstrates the same.

Until then, get ready for more “cheeky,” as other shows from the top fifty 80’s sitcoms get re-launched on the Internet. And, expect more cheeky faith-based films to be released, while producers continue to think it’s the campy sweetness that makes the shows work.

© 2016 by CJ Powers

Braving Social Media at Award Ceremonies

Actors are great at developing hype to draw their fans to anticipate the results of an award announcement. They bring their fan base into the ballroom vicariously through Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and Periscope. The progressive evening puts fans on the edge of their seat and then…nothing. The actor stops the stream of updated posts because he or she doesn’t know what to do when the award goes to another artist.

Publicity boutiques coach their talent on how to push through the loss with skills that increase their fan base. That’s right, the loss can increase the actor’s fan based when it’s handled properly. Here are some of the points taught:

KNOW HOW FANS THINK
Fans love to follow their favorite actors down the red carpet and into the ballroom. Why? Not to watch them win or lose, but to watch them interact with other stars. Fans love to know that “their” star is well connected. This sense of ownership generates compassion and pride every time their actor chats or poses with another. And, if the actor is at a table of stars, all the better. One thing is certain; it’s not about the win. Only the actor is concerned about who receives the statue.

CROSS PROMOTIONS
Networking with other actors that promote through social media increases both actors’ fan base. “Reconnecting” at a ceremony increases the interests of the fans to promote the actor through word of mouth. The more connections made at the ceremonies, the wider the distribution of word of mouth advertising.

THE HUMAN FACTOR
Fans want to be there for the actor’s win, but more importantly they want to see the human experience played out. The fan wants to know the star is just like them – disappointment and all. Fans want to learn how to handle those same types of responses in their own life and they want to learn it from their role model.

BUDDY SHOTS
Taking a great photo with each of the nominees in the actor’s category is a golden opportunity to share respect with peers before the winner is announced. It’s also an ideal moment to snap a picture of the actor sharing a smile with his or her winning “friend.” After all, promoting a congratulatory picture of the actor smiling with the winner will get massive traction in social media – Extremely valuable promotions. And, knowing that the actor’s circle of “friends” are award winners, means it’s only a matter of time before the fans see their actor make it to the big time – Instilling greater loyalty.

There are many more tips given by PR coaches, but the above will greatly accelerate the career of the average actor. It’s all about entertaining the fan base, while revealing the human condition. There is no better set of circumstances for developing true loyalty in fans. Actors must embrace and get excited about the great benefits of a well-promoted loss.

Copyright © 2016 by CJ Powers