
When I met Alex, he was on an upward trajectory as an entrepreneur who effectively balanced humility and self-promotion in his online presence. He understood the importance of sharing his achievements without overwhelming his audience.
Instead of simply listing his accolades, he crafted compelling stories that showcased the challenges he faced, the lessons he learned, and the positive impact his accomplishments had on others.
One such instance was when Alex won an industry award for his innovative product. Instead of highlighting the award, he shared a heartfelt post about the team behind the product, acknowledging their hard work and dedication. He emphasized the collective effort and celebrated the success as a shared accomplishment, making his audience feel included and inspired.
Alex’s expression of accomplishments reminded me of the quote…
“I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.”
Maya Angelou
This quote serves as a reminder that how we communicate our achievements can leave a lasting impression on others.
By focusing on creating positive emotions, instead of listing the wins, we can avoid the negative perception that may arise from excessive self-promotion.
Alex achieved that balance by ensuring his self-promotion was done with grace and tact. After learning how he positioned his statements, the below five strategies reflect his approach.
Strategies for Sharing Achievements Gracefully
1. Focus on the Story: Instead of solely highlighting the end result, share the journey behind your achievements. Craft engaging narratives that convey the challenges, setbacks, and lessons learned. By sharing the process, you create a more relatable and inspiring story that resonates with your audience.
2. Celebrate Others: Acknowledge the contributions of those who have supported you in the journey. Highlighting the team or individuals who have played a significant role in your achievements demonstrates humility and gratitude. It also showcases your ability to recognize and appreciate the collective effort.
3. Provide Value: When sharing your accomplishments, consider how they can benefit and inspire others. Share insights, lessons learned, or strategies that can help your audience. By offering valuable takeaways, you position yourself as a resource and an inspiration rather than solely focusing on self-promotion.
4. Practice Balance: It’s essential to balance sharing your achievements and engaging with others. Avoid overwhelming your online presence with an excessive number of self-promotional posts. Instead, actively participate in conversations, show genuine interest in others’ accomplishments, and support your community. This balance demonstrates your humility and willingness to contribute beyond self-promotion.
5. Be Authentic: Authenticity plays a significant role in how achievements are perceived. Be genuine and avoid embellishing or exaggerating your accomplishments. Share your successes with integrity and transparency, and let your genuine passion and enthusiasm shine through.
Give It a Try
Incorporating our achievements into our online profiles requires a delicate balance of self-promotion and humility. But like Alex, we can strike this balance gracefully by focusing on storytelling, celebrating others, providing value, practicing balance, and being authentic.
Remember, it’s not solely about what we achieve but how we make others feel.
By incorporating these strategies into your online presence, you can navigate the delicate balance between humility and self-promotion, creating a digital profile that showcases your accomplishments gracefully and positively impacts those who engage with it.
Copyright © 2023 by CJ Powers
This is so well said, CJ! So many blast out their accomplishments or the wonderful projects they are involved in. If one is not comfortable having a me, me, me conversation, it’s easier to just go along with the crowd and blurt it out. Your insight is spot on, and I’m going to do my best to incorporate it as I get more involved with the Soc Med aspect once again. Thank you!
Thank you for the read, comment, and generosity. I’ve been exhausted by the me-me-me people and the proudly “humble” that I had to find the balance. Being authentic and sharing everyone’s achievement, especially since none of us can get anywhere without others, is the only way to bring that sincere balance into play.