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How Thinkers Can Harmonize with Feelers

I’ll never forget popping in to visit a logical friend trying to meet a deadline. He had been up for 30 hours, with 10 hours to go and no viable solution. I asked him if I could help, and he erupted in laughter, too tired to respond tactfully.

I suggested that if he gave me a shot, the worst that could happen is that he’d still be where he was, and the best thing was he’d be working on a new solution. He appeased me and told me the goal, what he had done to date, and some critical elements.

Since I think very differently than most, I asked a couple of questions and then made a recommendation. He quickly tried my suggestion in his programming and had a working model minutes later. He was blown away at how many hours he spent using logical principles to find a technical solution, and then I walked in without the needed knowledge and gave him the base solution.

He had a polished program six hours later and turned it in with four hours to spare. To this day, he can’t figure out how his expertise and logical process couldn’t do in 30 hours what his unknowledgeable, intuitive friend did in 20 minutes.

But, he was grateful that our collaboration and synergy got the job done, and his client loved the solution.

Thinkers and Feelers

Every day, we face two types of decision-makers: Thinkers and Feelers. Unfortunately, most only communicate well with one of those groups while unintentionally diminishing the value of the other.

In my Signature Talk, “Cinematic Advantage: Creating Memorable Conversations and Presentations,” I share how to speak to both groups of people at the same time without alienating either. But today, I will share several strategies Thinkers can use to harmonize with Feelers.

First, you need to know that the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator, Thinkers (“T”), and Feelers (“F”) often form complementary partnerships, merging the realms of logical and emotional reasoning. They work well together when we focus on content appropriately.

However, melding these distinct thinking styles, especially in personal and professional environments, sometimes presents communication and mutual understanding hurdles. Below are several strategies Thinkers can employ to harmonize with the Feelers in their circle, fostering an atmosphere of compromise and teamwork while fostering a sense of joy.

1. Radiate Positivity: Non-Verbal Cues Matter

Feelers navigate using an emotional compass, highly receptive to verbal and non-verbal signals. Regardless of what is said, they will pick up on anyone filled with tension. Therefore, approaching sensitive discussions requires tranquility.

Mastering calmness through deep breathing exercises before sensitive conversations is crucial. Moreover, being mindful of our body language, from arm positioning to posture, can prevent conveying the wrong intent. When conversing with a Feeler on sensitive issues, these vital attributes require our focus.

2. Embrace Patience and Respect

Driven by empathy, Feelers prioritize others’ well-being, often at the expense of directness in their conversation. They tend to prioritize harmony over conflict, making honest emotional expression difficult.

Recognizing this, Thinkers should afford Feelers the latitude to articulate their thoughts fully despite circumstances. While Thinkers’ decisiveness is invaluable, appreciating diverse thought processes enhances interpersonal dynamics.

3. Foster a Culture of Honesty

Given Feelers’ aversion to upsetting the status quo, Thinkers should initiate spaces for candid dialogues, particularly regarding mutual expectations. Establishing a safe, welcoming environment that prioritizes transparent communication over diplomatic evasion encourages Feelers to voice their authentic thoughts, benefiting the collective in the long run. This will require Thinkers who want to benefit from the experience to maintain self-control and an open mind.

4. Prioritize Emotional Intelligence

While Thinkers instinctively seek pragmatic solutions, Feelers operate on an emotional frequency. Responding to Feelers’ concerns with stark logic can appear indifferent and will hinder productive conversation.

Striving to comprehend the emotions coloring their words, even without personally experiencing them, cultivates patience and fosters a climate where Feelers feel validated and inclined towards cooperation. They will become significant assets as they share the beneficial insights missed by Thinkers.

5. Identify Optimal Communication Channels

Understanding and aligning communication preferences is vital. For instance, while a Thinker might find text messages efficient, a Feeler could perceive them as detached, potentially triggering unwarranted concerns.

Transparency about communication styles and a willingness to adapt can mitigate misunderstandings and facilitate effective problem-solving. Also, remember that Feelers can read body language and overlook misspoken words, but not through texting.

6. Avoid Dismissing Their Emotions with Logic

Thinkers’ problem-solving prowess is commendable but not always appropriate when interacting with Feelers, who require emotional processing. Observing a Feeler dissect situations emotionally, though potentially perplexing, is akin to a Thinker’s logical evidence gathering.

Disregarding their methodology or displaying impatience can cause them to withdraw. Instead, offering empathetic support while they navigate their emotional journey is more constructive.

7. Validate Their Intuitive Strengths

Feelers, attuned to their emotions, often exhibit remarkable intuition. Their seemingly spontaneous logical conclusions stem from their deep emotional intelligence.

Discrediting this intuition can alienate them, whereas acknowledging its significance can ease collaborative efforts and enhance mutual trust. I’ve often found that most Feeler’s intuition is often more accurate than the short-term compiled data of Thinkers.

8. Provide Gentle Guidance

Balancing the relationship entails utilizing Thinkers’ logical prowess without overshadowing Feelers. Assisting them in navigating their emotional decision-making labyrinth by posing pertinent questions or refocusing their attention can be invaluable.

This synergy between Thinkers’ analytical abilities and Feelers’ emotional insights has transformative potential.

Embrace Openness

Effective communication with a Feeler doesn’t necessitate suppressing a Thinker’s inherent traits. Authenticity, coupled with a willingness to venture into emotional expressions, lays the foundation for profound connections.

This openness might involve Thinkers stepping out of their comfort zone, but in Feelers, this vulnerability is welcomed and reciprocated. As these personalities complement each other, a Feeler’s rationality can surface in response to a Thinker’s emotive side.

Through such heartfelt interactions, collaborative discussions thrive, enriching both parties.

Copyright © 2023 by CJ Powers

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Crafting a Valuable Core Story

Stories have an extraordinary power to transcend time and space, connecting individuals from diverse backgrounds through shared experiences and emotions. As a storyteller, you can create a profound bond with your audience by sharing your own narrative.

This personal tale, rooted in your core values and experiences, has the potential to inspire, empathize, and forge a lasting connection with your audience.

The Importance of an Authentic Story

In a world inundated with information, authentic storytelling has emerged as a vital means of cutting through the noise. Authenticity is the key to connecting. When you share your personal journey with honesty and vulnerability, you invite individuals into your world, fostering a sense of trust and empathy.

An authentic story delves beyond the surface, revealing the essence of who you are as an individual. This emotional connection is the cornerstone of a loyal and engaged audience. By weaving your values and experiences into your narrative, you create a compelling tale that resonates deeply with others.

Introspection and Self-Reflection

The journey of crafting a story, with what I call a cinematic advantage, begins with introspection and self-reflection. Take a moment to pause and look back at the path that led you to where you stand today. What were the turning points, challenges, and triumphs that shaped you?

Engage in journaling or meditation to delve into your memories, allowing hidden emotions and insights to surface. As you sift through your life’s tapestry, you’ll find the threads that connect the various chapters of your existence.

These highlights that surge to the forefront of your mind are typically cinematic in nature. They are easy to share so people can relive the moments with you, seeing what you experienced. This gives you an advantage over others who share anecdotes and quips to keep their audiences’ attention.

Identify Pivotal Moments

Every life is an anthology of pivotal moments that have left an indelible mark. These are the experiences that have changed, challenged, and empowered you. Whether it’s overcoming a daunting obstacle, embracing a life-altering opportunity, or weathering a storm of adversity, these moments define your character.

Take the time to identify these critical episodes in your life, for they will form the bedrock of a memorable visual story. Reflecting on both the highs and lows will infuse your narrative with a profound sense of authenticity and relatability. One of the best types of stories reflects on a flaw or failure that was overcome through a journey of stepping outside of yourself.

Understand Influential People

No individual exists in isolation; our lives are interwoven with the lives of others. In your story, acknowledge the people who have played pivotal roles in your journey. These may be family members, mentors, friends, or even chance encounters with strangers who left an indelible mark.

By incorporating their influence into your narrative, you pay homage to their significance and enrich your story with meaningful relationships. You also take the focus off of yourself and place it on those who helped you move forward. There is no better way of expressing a victory than sharing it with those who made it possible.

Shape Perspectives and Values

Our experiences shape not only our perspectives but also our core values. As you uncover your core values, consider the principles that guide your decisions and actions. Integrity, compassion, perseverance, or creativity—whatever these values may be, they represent the essence of who you are.

Infuse your cinematic story with these values, allowing them to anchor your narrative in authenticity. When readers witness your story aligned with your principles, they will resonate with the genuineness of your journey. They will also see your organically grown integrity.

Weave the Story Together

Now comes the pivotal task of weaving your story into a cohesive and captivating narrative—a visual and memorable story. Begin with a strong opening that sets the tone for your journey, drawing audiences in from the outset.

Utilize vivid descriptions and emotions to engage their senses, immersing them in your world. Create rising tension as you navigate the challenges, making your audience empathize with your struggles. Finally, offer a resolution that leaves a lasting impression—a lesson learned, a newfound perspective, or a sense of hope.

Embrace Vulnerability

In crafting your story, don’t shy away from vulnerability. Embracing your vulnerabilities can be a powerful way to connect deeply with your audience. Share moments of doubt, fear, or uncertainty, for everyone can relate to these aspects of the human experience.

By revealing your own struggles, you demonstrate your authenticity and inspire others to embrace their imperfections and find strength in their vulnerabilities. Nothing is more memorable than a story that takes you from rags to riches, procrastination to action, or ignorance to wisdom.

Leverage Your Values/Experiences

In a world that often feels disconnected, the art of storytelling serves as a bridge that unites us. Making your story a proverbial or actual cinematic experience has the potential to create a genuine bond with your audience, transcending barriers and inspiring a shared sense of humanity.

By unearthing your core values and experiences, you provide a pathway for others to relate, learn, and grow with you. Embrace the transformative power of personal storytelling and share your narrative with the world—discovering the beauty of our collective experiences.

Creating a memorable visual story begins with introspection and self-reflection, unearthing the core values and experiences that have shaped you. Identifying pivotal moments and understanding influential people will add depth and authenticity to your narrative. By aligning your story with your values and embracing vulnerability, you create an authentic and captivating tale that resonates with your audience.

Through the power of storytelling, we forge meaningful connections, break down barriers, and foster empathy—a gift that holds the potential to change lives and create a more connected and compassionate world. So, take a leap of faith and share your story with the world, for it is in our unique stories that we find our shared humanity.

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Entertaining Communication: Open Minds and Increase Recall

Communication is an art form for exchanging ideas and information that can fade into the background or leave an indelible mark.

Think about the last time you attended a conference, a seminar, or a family gathering where various speakers shared their thoughts. Amidst the sea of voices, there’s always one who stands out and whose words continue to resonate in your mind long after the event ends.

What sets this speaker apart?

It’s the power of entertainment in communication.

Entertainment can not only capture the attention of your audience but also etch your words into their memories. John experienced such a profound impact.

The conference room buzzed with anticipation. People gathered to hear speakers discuss the latest advancements in artificial intelligence. Among them was John, a charismatic speaker known for combining humor and storytelling with technical information. As he stepped onto the stage, the audience’s energy surged.

John started with a joke that had the entire room erupt in laughter. He then seamlessly transitioned into the complexities of machine learning algorithms. His explanations were laced with anecdotes and metaphors that make the subject accessible to everyone, from tech gurus to novices. Time flew by as he entertained and educated in equal measure.

Days later, I asked a person that attended the conference if he had remembered anything from the dozen speakers. The man retold one of John’s jokes with the Ai as the punchline’s central point. He then shared John’s main three points and how it will affect his business.

I asked about the other speakers and got a deadpan look from the man. He struggled to recall the information but told me he took notes.

While many speakers’ content was good enough for the man to take notes, John’s ability to entertain ensured that his message left an indelible mark.

When our communication entertains, we help the audience open their minds, consider our point of view, and retain the information.

Open Their Minds

Entertainment has a remarkable way of disarming our natural defenses. When we’re entertained, our guard drops and we become more receptive to new information.

In the case of John, his humor and engaging storytelling allowed the audience to relax and open their minds to the technical details of artificial intelligence.

Consider a comedy show where a stand-up comedian tackles sensitive topics with wit and humor. Regardless of their initial reservations, the audience finds themselves laughing and, in the process, becoming more open to different perspectives and ideas.

Entertainment paves the way for receptivity.

Consider Your Point of View

Entertainment has the unique ability to suspend disbelief. When engrossed in a captivating story, we temporarily set aside our skepticism and immerse ourselves in the narrative. This suspension of disbelief is a powerful tool in communication.

When an audience is entertained, they’re more likely to entertain the speaker’s point of view.

It’s not just about absorbing information; it’s about temporarily embracing the speaker’s perspective, even if it challenges their existing beliefs. This willingness to consider different viewpoints is essential for fostering dialogue and expanding horizons.

Retain the Information

Ever wondered why you can remember the lyrics to your favorite songs from years ago but struggle to recall dry facts from a lecture?

Entertainment is the key to unlocking the treasure chest of memory. Information presented in an entertaining and engaging manner becomes unforgettable.

In John’s case, the combination of humor and storytelling made his presentation enjoyable and memorable. Attendees didn’t just learn; they experienced the joy of learning. This fun factor is often the missing ingredient in traditional lectures and presentations, where information is delivered in a monotonous fashion.

The Power of Entertainment is Never Overstated

In the world of communication, the power of entertainment cannot be overstated. It can captivate and engage, open minds, encourage the consideration of different viewpoints, and enhance the retention of information. When you entertain your audience, you leave a lasting impression.

So, remember the impact of entertainment the next time you find yourself in a position to communicate – whether in a conference room, a classroom, or even a casual conversation. Make learning enjoyable. Inject humor, storytelling, or creativity into your message. The result? Your words will be heard, remembered, cherished, and shared. Because when your communication entertains, it makes learning new things not just informative but undeniably fun.

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