Our Self-Evident Right to an Opinion

This week Chick-fil-A was bombarded by the media, mayors and GLAAD members. The controversy started with Dan Cathy stating that he supported the traditional marriage. The media immediately turned the statement around and promoted that Chick-fil-A was opposed to gay marriage. Since those original statements, both sides of the political issue have made far more detailed statements – Taking clear sides on the issue.

Freedom of SpeechThe thing I find fascinating about this event was the amount of people taking a stand concerning the topic. I also found that the emotionally charged words being shared by both sides gave little room for anyone listening to the other’s opinion. But one thing was certain from my perspective, those who are in social power today, determine what is politically correct tomorrow.

Now more than any time in history, the one who controls the media platform of choice and its content, controls our society’s future direction. While the media itself is a neutral tool, it is a platform used to express the views of the content producer, including their perspective on what is right and wrong.

In today’s society, when few are willing to go against the politically correct views of the day, the things that are right and wrong become relative. Historically, relativism led to the demise of several great societies and cultures. It is something that can only be stopped by society trusting in the absolutes of truth. And, truth can only be accepted when presented for consideration to each individual living within the society, whether through one-on-one conversation or through the media.

So, where do we start?

I’d suggest we help others understand the simple truth that they have the self-evident, God-given right to voice their opinion on what is right and wrong. This innate right was a free gift to them when God chose to make us in his image. Since he has the right to share anything he wants with us, we have the same right to reciprocate with him and share with those around us. This right is ours regardless of who dominates the media.

My grandmother shared stories with me from when she was living in the 50’s. She said it was common to have neighbors passionately discuss politics over the backyard fence. When both the Democrat and the Republican had their say, both people understood the other more and were able to respect the words shared. Rarely did anyone’s opinion change, but they were both able to share their views. They also walked away with an attitude of respect for each other, which allowed them the opportunity to do it again on the next day.

Respecting someone’s viewpoint, while not agreeing with it, is one of the greatest acts of love gifted to mankind. This form of compassion can help us demonstrate respect to those we disagree with. It can also help us understand those who are hurting or emotionally wounded from a political issue.

It’s my opinion that everyone has the right to share what is on his or her heart. Unfortunately, society is not always a safe place for sharing. I hope there are people across America who have let go of judgment and replaced it with respect, so they can carefully understand those who are hurting and need encouragement.

And, sharing an opinion in a respectful manner might allow more people to consider our position on issues. But, regardless of the diplomacy or the politically correctness of an idea, no one should tamper with our freedom of speech. We must hold onto this freedom for all, even those who disagree with us.

Copyright © 2012 By CJ Powers
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Protecting Your Core Strength with Workflow

Businessmen, homemakers, pastors and filmmakers all have core strengths that must be protected. I’ve found that the easiest way to do so is by setting up workflows. Pastors and filmmakers sometimes find it difficult to establish a workflow, since their sensitivity to the spirit and their creativity desire fresh off-the-cuff responses that struggle against the logical norms of a structured workflow – Although most subscribe to some form of a disciplined routine.

Workflow ChartWhen I was a little kid, I’d watch my dad get ready for work. He followed the same simple tasks everyday like clockwork. The sheer repetition suggested he could ready himself in his sleep and I knew exactly when to hand him the electric razor so I wouldn’t alter his disciplined routine. When I was in sync with his workflow, he appreciated my help, but when I disturbed it, he wanted me out of the way. One thing was certain; his workflow reduced the time it took him to get ready to a mere 20 minutes including a shower.

By adapting a workflow, businessmen are freed up to focus their time on core activities rather than the onslaught of fires they have to put out. Homemakers are constantly fighting things that go against their planning to the point that systematic responses to certain activities can lighten the load and reduce the strain of battling hindrances. Both types of people find themselves forced into using project management skills daily and could take advantage of streamlining some of the more mundane or repetitive tasks into a simplified workflow.

When I write a screenplay, I spend most of my time determining the film’s structure and the key sequences needed to tell the story in the best way possible. I use a workflow that I developed after studying five great cinematic storytellers. The workflow allows me to progress quickly through the less creative steps in order to free my time for more creative opportunities.

The process I used to establish my workflow may be beneficial as a tool to establish your own productive workflow:

1. Brainstorm the important steps. Write every step in no particular order on a Post-It note or index card. Spread them arbitrarily out on a large table or attach them to a wall. Move them around to create a logical progression or outline of activities, making sure related elements are together. This is also the time to make sure elements that build on other elements are in the proper order so additional work or rework is reduced. This is know in corporate circles as mind mapping.

2. Group Steps into Sequenced Activities. Review the outline and determine what elements can be grouped together for efficiencies. This is the ideal time to think about a factory setting where you have multiple people handling portions of the activity. Ask yourself what functional person would handle what module of activities. The answer will help you to formulate chunks of work that can be done in tandem or a quick sequence, and give you numerous stopping points that don’t hinder progress. This is ideal when a project is longer than the amount of time needed in one sitting.

3. Test each Sequence of Steps. Using a mini project that touches all the modules or sequences, but takes no longer than a couple of hours, is ideal to verify that the process or new workflow is productive and effective.

4. Streamline the Process Based on Synergies. Drop the elements or the steps that are no longer needed due to the synergies gained from the groupings of activities. This is particularly hard for some people after they have built new habits around the workflow. However, this step is the one that gives you the greatest timesavings and helps you mature the process.

I chatted with one blogger who spent a few hours establishing a workflow that allowed him to publish a blog five days a week. While his structure lacks creativity, it is clear, concise and informative. The best part of his workflow is the freedom he gets to address issues he never thought possible, making him far more valuable to his audience.

I’d like to read about the types of workflows you have used and what made them successful. Please take a moment to comment.

 

Copyright © 2012 By CJ Powers
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Play Leads to Creative Strategy for Healing

“In coming!” the five year old yelled as he dove under the TV tray.

Splat! The crab apple cracked open against the apple tree and sprayed the enemy.

I stayed low behind the bushes to avoid a barrage of retaliation. I put the stem of the crab apple grenade between my teeth and gave it a yank. It was armed. I tossed it high over the bushes and watched it slice through the tree branches, releasing two apples that dropped down on Denny. A direct hit.

Craig shouted for Denny to duck under the TV tray, but it was too late. My third crab apple grenade smashed down hard, rattling the flimsy tray and tossing the snacks into the air. Success!

“We surrender!” Shouted Denny.

I stood up with a pile of grenades in my arms and walked toward Denny and Craig with the pride of victory welling up within my soul.

“Now!” Shouted Craig, catching me by surprise.

I was met with a shower of apples that appeared from behind their backs. The first hit jostled my arm full of apples, dumping them to the ground. I turned and jumped into the nearby bushes. Apples smashed through the branches landing all around me.

Thankfully I was unscathed, but they were camped out next to the crab apple tree and the only grenades I had were the near misses within my reach. They also had our snacks and my stomach rumbled for a treat.

I had no choice but to surrender and invoke the Geneva convention so I could eat. After all, little boys need food to grow big and strong, especially with me entering the first grade in a couple weeks.

Convinced that I was trembling behind the bushes, Craig and Denny set down their apples and grabbed one of the numerous snacks. The treats were so delicious that they didn’t see me walk over to them. I quickly grabbed a handful of apples and pelted them at close range. They dropped their treats and ran into the garage. I packed up the candy and headed home, the winner.

Before entering my home, I circled back around and met Denny and Craig on their back steps where we chatted and ate the snacks. It had been another exciting day filled with adventure and we couldn’t wait to see what our creative play would bring about the next day. But for the time, we leaned back against the steps and chatted about how good life was.

We didn’t know, until later in life, how our playtime allowed us to develop adult skills. Craig knew that the TV tray would protect him from the falling debris, as he sought it’s protection. His insights and methodical approach to life would one day shine as an executive of a major chemical engineering firm.

Denny always seemed to be caught in the middle of life happening to him. He was always a free spirited musician who just lived life naturally. It was no wonder he didn’t take cover, but instead watched the apples slice through the branches, depositing him with a juicy shrapnel.

I was always the creative and strategic innovator. Up until we got together, a crab apple was just another apple to the guys. They had no idea how much fun it would be to play Rat Patrol or War. And, my six year old mentality was pretty good at scrambling to find a way to win.

Years later, I realized how important that early stage of life was to each of us. We were being groomed for our future and didn’t understand that how we faced our daily lives would establish our future. We weren’t cognizant of how we would develop and use those early year experiences to the betterment or detriment of our lives.

Psychologists tell us that we go through four main stages in life and each stage adds to the previous one. What is more fascinating to me is how we fall back to the last stage where we were most comfortable the moment we encounter a crisis in our life. It seems like I’ve revisited adolescence several times including when my dad died in a plane crash and the divorce I faced.

The good news is that my mind and life experiences stayed intact and allowed me to methodically work back to being an adult (emotionally speaking) in a reasonable fashion after grieving and regrouping. In fact, I’ve noticed that the same processes help in getting past dates who have dumped me or immature co-workers who don’t understand how to be professional.

The steps I take for bounding back includes:

1. Admit How I Feel — Acknowledging my negative feelings validate my right to live and feel. It allows me to be authentic and face the fact that I was hurt.

2. Understand My Feelings — Focusing on what is at the core of why I feel bad enlightens me to my core desires that were blocked or rejected. This gives me the ability to decide if my desires are worth supporting or changing, and gives opportunity to refine it.

3. Make A Great Choice — Regardless of the pain or hurt feelings I’ve endured, I have the opportunity to make a choice of picking myself up and moving forward in seeing my desires fulfilled. This sense of action moves me closer to being fulfilled and further away from having a pity party or falling into a depression.

4. Celebrate My Growth — Every time I’ve gone through a crisis, I’ve had the opportunity to refine my perspective, clarify my desires and gained wisdom that is helpful when shared with others. This gift allows me to be a blessing to others while I’m on the trail to my hearts desire.

I never thought so much would develop within my soul as a result of lobbing apple grenades through the trees. Nor did I understand that my creativity and ability to strategize would be used to help others walk through their crisis. As for today, I’m currently developing a program designed to help the hurting through a new creative process. I hope to share more about it in the near future, but for now I’ll just remind you that you were wonderfully and fearfully made.

Copyright © by CJ Powers
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