Courageous has Successful Opening

The estimated box office for the weekend puts “Courageous” at $8.8MM and slots it as the 13th best Christian film of all time. By next week it will be in the top ten, surpassing the Kendrick brother’s first popular film “Facing the Giants.” But, success isn’t the only thing Alex and Stephen are facing. The weekend saw the first critics slamming the film for not using the proven and standard story structure that has given rise to thousands of box office successes.

Instead of following those standard rules, Alex and Stephen focused on taking the audience on an emotional journey that leads them to face a decision of whether or not they are willing to be courageous in their own homes. The Inception type ending leaves the audience with plenty to discuss and a decision of what they might choose for their life.

The universal question that seems to permeate the plot line is, “Are you willing to lay down you life for your family.” Rather than resolving it in a clean manner by the end of the story, the audience is taken on an emotional journey to see numerous demonstrations of what that resolve might look like based on the lives of the ensemble cast. By the end of the film, a new question is asked, “Are you willing to make that same resolve in your life?”

It wouldn’t surprise me if the emotionally charged ending of the film drives men in some theaters to physically stand in accepting that same resolve. It certainly sparked conversations within families who attended and charged men to do what is deep within their hearts to do.

By the end of the weekend, I had bumped into several men who saw it. They felt the emotional pulse of the film was too strong and they would not watch it a second time, but pointed out that they would consider the resolve in their own life. Others hearing about the high emotions within the film, chose to avoid it because they didn’t know how to deal with such an onslaught of emotions.

The intensity of the film at one point, did get where I too felt uncomfortable and hoped for some comic relief, and relief is what I got. The humor in the film generated several belly laughs, making me wonder if Alex and Stephen might some day consider making a hilarious comedy, bringing joy into our lives during these difficult days with a message of hope. They certainly have the aptitude for good clean humor.

The intensity of the film did cause many to wipe their eyes once or twice. And, it made even good fathers consider whether they should step up to become great fathers. The new format, which seemed to be similar to a sermon, worked well for the story and seemed perfectly at home focused on it’s primary market – The church.

In my mind, “Courageous” surpasses Alex and Stephen’s previous films because they got back to the core of what they do best, preach to the church. Rather than watering down their message to make it more universal, they focused on the church, knowing that there would be some people on the fringes that see it. This focus on turning what is on their heart into a work of art makes “Courageous” more emotionally charged than any of their previous films and worth seeing.

Ireland Reunion

The team that went to Ireland met for a reunion last night. Michael McNamee, missionary to Europe and our Irish host, joined our reunion. Michael oversees Convoy of Hope Europe, church planting, Masters Commission Europe and a prayer team. His passion for the church of Europe is continually forefront on his mind, but he always takes time to salt in good humor.

A group of us paid tribute to Jean Carley, a dear woman who hosted several of our team at her house in Ireland. She died from an aneurism a few weeks after we returned home. The tribute included a simple country western line dance.

With all the unique dancing in Ireland, Jean desired to learn one country western dance. One night without music, a group of us taught her some simple steps. After the lesson, she told us that she would come to America ready to dance at our reunion, but we had to provide the music. It was befitting for us to add music last night to the same steps and dance in honor of Jean.

It was fun getting reacquainted with the team and reminiscing about those terrible (long hours of hard work) wonderful (joyful love filled) days. Smiles filled every face and all had a great time. There were even talks about heading to the Philippines in January to finish building a partially built church or care center.

It didn’t take too long before several of us were talking about returning to Ireland. Michael invited me to join him in Brussels for a time, as he past on greetings from my friends in Belgium. We have definitely become a close-knit family sharing a great ministry of touching other people’s lives.

The best part about helping others and sharing love with them is the vast amounts of love and joy we receive in return. There is no comparison. And, some how we always receive more than we can give out. So to my dear friends in Ireland, blessings to you:

May the road rise up to meet you.
May the wind always be at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face,
and rains fall soft upon your fields.
And until we meet again,
May God hold you in the palm of His hand.

Copyright © 2011 By CJ Powers

A Goofy Wheelchair Race – A Lesson in Storytelling

I had a great laugh the other day as my running partner shared about how she entered a wheelchair race and took third place. I gave her a peculiar look since her legs were working just fine. Our discussion went on to reveal how the first place woman took a hairpin curve on two wheels, causing onlookers to gasp. There is nothing worse than watching a runaway wheelchair toss it’s victim to the ground.

The second place woman attempted to cheat, using her grandson’s flare gun from his boat to propel her wheelchair with an added boost. I was taken aback when I learned how my friend swerved at just the right moment to cut off another lady who ended up in fourth place. This was a side of my friend I had never seen before.

I asked why she entered a wheelchair race when she didn’t use one daily. She told me it was a race she thought she could win. She also told me that there were no rules stopping her from doing so and she glowed with pride when she shared how she entered the 80-year-old age bracket because they didn’t check id’s.

It was hilarious. Sick, but funny, especially if you know my friend. Seldom will friends explore a creative story on the fly and here she was making up complete backstory along with her throughline without hesitation. She even kept straight faced, hoping to capture my curiosity to the story’s validity. It was remarkable.

Storytelling can be a lot of fun, whether made up on the spot with creative insights and make believe role-playing like my friend did, or storyboarded milestones for a compelling business story. Not only is it fun for the teller and the audience, but story happens to embed it’s key points into the mind of those we influence.

The power of story is so significant that it was used by Jesus, Hitler, and Walt Disney. It didn’t matter if the stories were about spiritual life, a dominating race, or exploring the world from a child’s perspective, each story compelled people to consider what the teller  desired. It was also an easy and acceptable way to communicate a memorable point worth evaluating.

I heard a preacher tell a story 20 years ago that I still remember. Every time I face a related moral dilemma, I recall the story and make the right decision. But some stories are best forgotten.

Anytime I watch an unsavory type person persuade an unknowing subject, I recall the story that Mrs. Van Hussen told me about her time as a publicist working for Hitler. I was amazed at how they got people to believe that Jewish accountants on one street were actually raping young boys every night.

While Disney told stories for adventure and entertainment, I’ve found myself sharing stories that help people make decisions that improve their lives. Even at work, I’ve found myself answering questions in the form of a memorable story. In fact, I recently drew a picture that prompted my boss’s boss to ask me about the story behind it.

Just as a picture is worth a thousand words, story is a memorable tool that can easily be passed down from generation to generation. It is the one thing that draws us to the point of considering what we haven’t ever considered. It’s also the element that helps us to explore creative angles on any given problem with great results.

Telling a memorable story is simple. Just make sure it has a beginning that allows you to set up the point, a middle that works through the point, and an ending that makes the point. If you are able to present some related form of irony with it, your story will be all the more memorable.

So, like my friend, just dive in and share a goofy story on the fly for practice and see how you do. And, try to make the story something in keeping with your character, as my friend is still wondering if I understood that she was joking, as she told a story completely foreign to her actual choices in life.

Copyright © 2011 By CJ Powers
Photo  © caraman