Unsung Female Heroes

sateliteMany have caught onto the fact that I support women in their dream endeavors. This is partly due to my upbringing, as I was born into what I call a matriarch. Grandma LePage was a strong woman that handled the village’s finances. She was a lady that earned respect from hundreds of people. I’ve heard stories about how her mother was even stronger and also highly respected.

My mother was a very strong and opinionated leader that helped hundreds of kids learn the difference between book and street smarts. Countless people learned that the applications of life lessons were seldom accomplished in the way books taught.

Of course, several strong aunts surrounded me. One was well known in the food industry. Another was known in the music and arts community. Still others fit into their own areas of expertise. None were solely domestic housewives. They all held powerful positions in business and the arts, and took care of family duties.

Unfortunately our society never recognized the brilliant accomplishments that happened daily. As a single parent, although my kids are now on their own, I can tell you about the energy it took these women to manage their households and perform great work in their communities.

This juxtaposition of home duties against the workload of a job was countrywide, yet was seldom recognized. During the 1960s space race, the Rocket Girls were called sweetie, instead of by the title of their earned engineering degrees. These women handled all the calculations that allowed NASA to put the first satellite in space.

The daughter of a friend of mine was working hard to get into a prestigious engineering school. After qualifying, they recommended she not attend since she wouldn’t be able to keep up with the boys and would eventually be rejected. Did that top ten school not know that capable women worked NASA’s engineering calculations before high speed computers took over?

Back in 1849 Maria Mitchell was the first hire for non-domestic skills by the U.S. government. She was the “computer of Venus.” She made daily mathematical calculations of the stars and Venus. The results of her work were titled the United States Nautical Almanac. It was so accurate that ships worldwide used it for navigation until modern day GPS took over.

From charting navigation, to rocketing a man into space, to the numerous calculations women work in preparation for heading to Mars, women have been instrumental in the creation of many modern day conveniences. In the medical community alone women created 4,000 plus inventions.

Since women are doing great things for our communities, I believe we should make sure they get their due recognition. For decades they’ve been our unsung heroes of community growth and they deserve the acknowledgment. So from me, thank you ladies for all you’ve done!

© 2016 by CJ Powers

Three Kids Stir Audience

© apops - Fotolia.comLast weekend I had the privilege of listening to all three of my kids speak to a good-sized audience. My son, Chris, kicked off the event with humorous comments that broke the tension in the room and drew the audience into the stories and ideas he shared. His natural style, energy and captivating performance held everyone’s attention through to his final point.

Whispers filled the room as my daughter moved up the steps to the stage. The audience was concerned for Carolyn, as no one could imagine how anyone would follow Chris’ success. But she too blew the audience’s expectations away with her unique style and satirical humor. To balance her fun approach, she shared personal anecdotes salted with words of comfort, compassion and encouragement.

After a couple more speakers, my youngest daughter, Caitlyn, climbed the steps and shared a reading. It was powerful, thought provoking and clear. Her professional presence at the podium was salted with grace and her trademark smile. Her final words launched a buzz of comments in the audience about how amazing my three kids were.

While I’ve messed up numerous things in my kids’ lives over the years, I’ll claim success in raising three incredible leaders and speakers. They learned how to think, tell stories and develop strong opinions. They are capable of communicating one on one and in large groups. But most of all, they have learned to do one thing I never set out to teach them.

All three kids can speak from their heart in an authentic manner that captures the attention of everyone in the room.

Sharing from the heart presents our greatest passions to our audience. It’s a form of entertainment that opens the mind to consider the words being shared. It also lowers the wall that protects our mind to give room for change and growth. Words of passion help the audience see who we really are and respect the message we share.

Should I leave this world unexpectedly, I’ll be at peace knowing that I left the world three times better off than when I entered it. I am a proud papa and can’t wait to see how my kids impact our world over the next few decades. It’s my prayer that they will each be given a divine calling to make a difference in their marketplace, neighborhood and communities.

And, I’m trusting that I’ll have many opportunities to impact millions too. After all, there are more than 7.4 billion people on earth that I’d like to share a piece of my passion with. Whether by speaking to one person at a time or reaching thousands through the media, I can’t imagine being a part of life and not participating in the possibilities.

© 2016 by CJ Powers

Why Fuller House Campy Wins

Fuller_HouseTwitter was abuzz with the release of Fuller House, the Netflix reprise series based on the original Full House. Since Netflix doesn’t reveal the number of viewers watching, estimates can only be determined by social media activity. All standard media sources suggest that the new series is a large success – No surprise to anyone.

Conversely, there probably isn’t a single critic in the market that would recommend the campy 80’s styled sitcom, but they’d all admit the episodes are perfectly crafted for the show’s original fans. The polarized marketplace will probably not provide any new viewers, but the series had a very large initial fan base eager to watch the series again.

It was clear in the first episode that the cast played some of the jokes straight to the audience including the writer’s proverbial hand slap to Mary-Kate and Ashley Olsen (who played Michelle Tanner) for not joining the cast. The media picked up on the controversy, which increased viewership.

The Olsen ladies are fashion experts and not in a position to leave their empire unmanaged. Nor do they consider themselves actors, which would make the long shooting days grueling rather than stimulating. But, the deciding factor would have been the dollars spent on their high salaries that are well above an Internet budget. Another deterrent might be their lackluster desire to look alike and take turns playing Michelle. Although some still hope they will appear for a cameo in a future episode.

However, the real question behind Fuller House is how can a campy 80’s styled sitcom be so successful in an era when dark motion pictures excel over cheeky? The answer to the question is also demonstrative in the faith-based markets. So, I thought I’d try to explain both.

Two factors attribute to the Fuller House success. The first are the beloved characters that fans grew up with. During the 80’s, the characters played “family” well. It was during a time when families were breaking a part with more divorces than any other time in the history of our country. The characters became role models for those seeking unity of family in a time when the family unit was being dissolved.

The second factor was about demonstrating what “love” looked like. In fact, the first episode of Fuller House dove right in and demonstrated that same sacrificial love for the sake of family that made the show great in the 80’s. Our society has been polarized in recent years between narcissists and those willing to make sacrifices for loved ones. Fuller House is capitalizing on those who long for someone to demonstrate true love to them, which they can vicariously receive, with hope, through the series.

Anyone thinking that it’s the cheese factor that attracts the audience is missing how powerful it is for a fan to receive life lessons from a beloved character. They may also be missing the fact that most people in our country no longer have anyone that is willing to share unconditional and sacrificial love with them. That void emotionally bonds the beloved characters  with the audience, making them a part of their family.

The successful faith-based films are the same way. It’s not the cheesy storylines that draw the audience, but the “born again” stars that drive the films. David A. R. White always plays an approachable character who lives his faith out loud for everyone to see. In real life, White does the same, completing the connection for audiences to adore his work. It’s not his acting skills that draw the audience, but his personal character and his role.

Fuller House’s Candace Cameron Bure also shares personal similarities with her D. J. Tanner character. Both live a wholesome life out loud for all to see and are held in high esteem as a role model. Her super fans played a large role in supporting and promoting her conservative ideas when she was on The View – Proving that campy wasn’t the key factor to her success.

The funny thing is that many think campy is the thing that works in both Fuller House and faith-based films. But it’s the campy that pushes the general public away from the moral based shows. Only those who already appreciate wholesome living are able to tolerate the campy and it’s been around forever.

The 40’s had Abbott and Costello. The 50’s had Dean Martin and Jerry Lewis. The 60’s moved campy to television with Batman. The 70’s campy shifted back to the silver screen with car films that allowed stars like Burt Reynolds to temporarily leave character and wink at the audience. The 80’s brought numerous campy series to television like Full House, The Facts of Life, Family Ties, Happy Days and many more. The 90’s saw the introduction of dozens of reality shows, which killed most campy shows.

Today campy is back, but not because people want to live in a delusional state, but because it’s the only shows that offer a demonstration on what family looks like and how to unconditionally share a sacrificial love with someone by putting them above oneself. Those two factors will continue to keep Fuller House a success until someone comes up with a realistic non-campy show that demonstrates the same.

Until then, get ready for more “cheeky,” as other shows from the top fifty 80’s sitcoms get re-launched on the Internet. And, expect more cheeky faith-based films to be released, while producers continue to think it’s the campy sweetness that makes the shows work.

© 2016 by CJ Powers