Blind Date—Or —Blind Faith

This weekend I’ll participate in another blind date. Yes, I’m leery, as dating is awkward at best in this day and age. But, as long as I have friends who fantasize about me meeting the right woman in a special way, I’ll probably continue to find myself taking a leap into the unknown out of respect.

I’m not sure why people don’t just introduce me to their friend, rather than turning it into a dramatic moment almost sure to crash and burn. Either way, matchmaking is a dying art form with a third of all first dates being generated from website connections.

This crazy world we live in has changed the landscape of new dating relationships. Prior to a date, women typically google their potential man to learn about him. She wants key questions answered like, does he have a job, is he surrounded by good friends, does he have a healthy spiritual side, or, is he an axe murder?

But in a blind date, there is an element that requires a leap of faith or tremendous trust in the friend setting you up. Sometimes the effort is rewarded, but most times your friend is just trying to use your niceties to help out a lonely woman who talks daily to her seven cats – Yes, I’ve been on those type of dates (Where do you think I got the idea for the seven cats). What’s funny is that people remind me that a date with a cat woman is far better than sitting at home alone. I’m not sure I agree, when I could be spending time writing.

Tomorrow’s date will certainly take a leap of faith, which could be a good thing. Putting trust into a friend might help me get another perspective on how important it is to trust in God as I walk by faith. While tomorrow night might reveal my friend’s failure at matchmaking, God will own and possibly redeem the moment for His purposes.

I call these moments, “divine appointments.” They are times when we walk by faith trusting that God will bring about good to those who love Him and are called according to His purpose. They are the times when we live by faith, not by sight – Always trusting that God will bring about that greater good.

This perspective suggests that my worst-case scenario for tomorrow night will be a God moment where I can encourage someone. The best case is finding a life partner or a great friend. Either way I win, as I walk by faith during my blind date.

Copyright © 2011 By CJ Powers
Photo: © detailblick – Fotolia.com

Tips for a Filmmaker of Short Films

I recently judged another film festival and found that the number one issue creating a great chasm between a great film and a lousy one was the story structure or lack of it. While experience and technical expertise plays a role in making a film great, most filmmakers could have jumped ahead of many competitors just by improving their story structure.

Story structure for a short film is as simple as having a beginning, middle and an end. Some filmmakers expand the formula by adding on an epilogue. However, this simple three act structure is the one thing that drives the story forward and creates a desire in the hearts of viewers to see the story to completion. Without it, the audience asks why they wasted their time.

The festival I judged was a 36-hour competition, which forces filmmakers to be extremely creative in their story ideas and how they pull off the exercise. Most filmmakers attempting such competitions never meet the deadline. The next largest group of entrants turns in films that aren’t worth the entry fee. But, for those who come away with a good story, they find the experience a jolt to their career.

For those who don’t place, here are a few simple tips for your story structure:

1. Create a likeable character. A short film doesn’t have the ability to develop a unique or paradoxical character, so simplify things by making him or her likeable. In the first scene, show the character doing something that warms the heart of the audience.

2. Set-up your story in the first scene. The opening of a short sets the tone, flavor and pace for the entire film. It is important that you make a comedy’s opening funny, or a dramas opening tense, or an adventure film’s opening exciting.

3. Give your character a challenge to overcome. It is important that your character has a flaw they have to learn how to overcome during the middle of the show. This prepares them for the big climax where they cause the audience to cheer for their victory.

4. Create a huge obstacle. Whether the main character has to overcome nature, an obstacle, or antagonist, it needs to be bigger than life. This will make the character’s win even more powerful for the audience.

5. Give the audience time to reflect. Once the main character succeeds, the audience needs time to emotionally come down from the excitement and realize what happened. Allow the final scene to play a little longer or add in an epilogue.

These simple steps give direction to a short film that most lack. It will cause the viewer to desire a second or third viewing. Without it, the audience will walk away disappointed.

For those filmmakers in a rush due to deadlines, they can simply build a short story around the following questions:

1. What fun or cool thing can my main character do?

2. How can this play out visually and set the tone for my film?

3. What is his or her flaw that needs to be overcome?

4. What things would block that growth?

5. What might happen that allows the main character to use his new found strengths to overcome what he would normally have failed at?

6. What is the best way for my main character to celebrate the victory?

The answer to each question creates an outline that will match up with the story structure explained above. By simply following this process, the filmmaker can get into the top 20% of competing films. And, with a flair for artistic expression and a clear understanding of technology, the filmmaker can get himself into the winners circle.